Wealth and Wisdom
Monday's

If money feels tense in your relationship right now, that does not mean you are failing each other. It usually means you are both carrying more than you were ever taught how to hold together.

Here’s what we mean:

Credit card debt rarely feels like a spreadsheet problem in the body. It feels like pressure in the chest.

A pit in the stomach.

A quiet fear of being found out or not being enough. When money stays unspoken, the nervous system fills in the gaps with shame, threat, and self-protection.

That is not weakness. That is survival doing what it learned to do.

Dollars and Sense

I think about a couple I once worked with. They sat on opposite ends of the couch, polite but distant. On paper, they were doing okay. Good jobs. Shared bills paid. But there was a tightness in the room you could almost hear.

At one point, one partner stared at the floor and said softly, “I just don’t want to disappoint you.” The other inhaled sharply and replied, “I didn’t know you were scared.”

That was the moment.

Not the balance.

Not the interest rate.

The fear underneath the silence.

Later, one of them shared how growing up, money mistakes were met with anger and withdrawal. Love felt conditional. So, as an adult, secrecy felt safer than honesty. Not because they did not care, but because they cared so deeply, they were terrified of losing connection.

Debt did not create the distance. Silence did.

Before talking about numbers, name the feeling. One sentence is enough:

“Money conversations make me anxious.” Or “I feel embarrassed when I think about our credit cards.”

Emotional honesty lowers defenses and invites teamwork. You cannot problem solve what your nervous system still feels threatened by.

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Behind the Scenes

About a month ago, our team stepped out of the office for a staff meetup. We ate, laughed, and talked about life outside of our roles. It was a reminder that healing work has to be rooted in humanity and joy, not just insight.

We carry that energy back into every session we hold.

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